Monday, April 22, 2013

DC LOVE

March felt like a series of adventures, with a few minutes to catch our breath in between unpacking half  of the house from the last trip and packing up the other half of the house for the next.  

When my sister friend Lindsay said that she would be flying from Hawaii to DC with her youngest son Makana to visit our other sister Amanda in March, we said, "yes, we're in!".  If you remember from a few months ago, Amanda and Josh are there for a semester as Josh is interning for Senator Lee from Utah.  That's how we scored tickets to President Obama's Inauguration.  Now, two months later, we were on the road again, this time to see Linds and Makana as well.  

On Friday night we stayed in Arlington, VA at my graduate school girlfriend Katherine's house.  She and her dog Pumpkin made us feel very welcome.  We cooked them dinner and dessert, and stayed up late talking.  Of course I didn't get any photos of that night, but we loved catching up with old friends.

The next morning we met up with the clan at Josh and Amanda's rented basement studio.  It was a sweet reunion since we hadn't seen Linds since she and her family moved to Hawaii last summer.  After lunch and an adventure navigating the metro with strollers, we arrived at Union Station and walked to the National Mall.  Here are Josh, Amanda and Lindsay, ready to take on the city.



Our first stop was the Capitol building.  As an intern, one of Josh's jobs is to give tours and he was quite the brainiac.  Although it was Saturday and we could not go inside, Josh gave us a brief walk n' talk about American history, and Washington DC.  





The goal that afternoon was to make it from one end of the National Mall to the other.  We did it, but it was a long haul, considering that every few minutes we were stopping for something or another with the kiddos.  The kids did very well, but I'm pretty sure that our very slow pace was an eye opener for Josh and Amanda, who are used to a stroller and diaper-bag free existence.  (Hanging out with us probably causes people all the time to think twice before starting a family anytime in the near future).





The carousel on the mall!  The cherry blossoms!  After living in Japan nearly ten years ago we have a love for sakura and especially o-hanami, the picnics under the trees that give spring an official welcome.  We were too early for most of the Washington DC Cherry Blossom Festival events, and the trees around the Tidal Basin weren't in bloom, but every once in a while we found a tree blossoming ahead of the curve.



My favorite photo of Lindsay and Amanda.  And below, my favorite photo of our family.  When I look at these photos from this trip, all I can think is, "love, love, love".  So much love.  So much fun.



Above are some of the Asian kites flying in front of the Capital Building, as part of the Cherry Blossom Festival.  The day we spent at the mall was a particularly beautiful day, and although we found the winds whipping down the mall very cold, there were a lot of sports enthusiasts playing pick up games in the grass.  

At one moment I noticed that all three kids were asleep at the same time.  Victory!



The Fantastic Four on the way to the Lincoln Memorial.  I love this image.




The Lincoln Memorial, looking back at the Washington Monument.



On Sunday we went to church in the morning, which was really great.  After church we decided it would be nice to take a driving tour of a few must-sees in DC.  We started with the National Cathedral - beautiful, but closed.  Bummer.  Then Georgetown, which was an absolute driving disaster.  Then the Iwojima statue, and then Arlington National Cemetery and the Pentagon.



We spent the most time at Arlington National Cemetery.  It was moving to see the endless rows of identical headstones.  Life is so, so precious.





For dinner we found one of my new all-time favorite restaurants, ever.  We were a little high strung after an afternoon of DC traffic, and it was exactly what we needed - "Busboys and Poets" in Arlington (there are other locations around the DC area as well).  At the end of the meal, every one of us said, "That was the best ___ I've ever had".  The service, atmosphere and food were all absolutely top notch.  Do yourself a favor and go there the next time you're in Washington.  They even have open mic night and a book club, if you're into that sort of thing.






After dinner, it was family hang out time in our hotel room.  Since we had more space than Josh and Amanda's basement studio, everyone partied at our place until late.  We were going to watch a movie, but we were too happy talking and catching up.  Gigi and Makana stayed up late playing with stickers and giving hugs.



On Monday morning we packed up half of our house to put back into our car and checked out of the hotel, much to Gigi's disappointment.  She is a real hotel enthusiast.  

Then it was pancake party time at the basement studio...


...and on to the Capital Building to meet with Josh for our private tour.  


This is the flight of stairs the President descends with his family on Inauguration Day.  The small balcony straight ahead is where Presidents are sworn in, and that's the national mall in the back.  It was unreal to be there, so up close and personal, and to have a private tourguide showing us the behind-the-scenes features.



Josh earned himself a break.  At one point I needed to feed a fussy Orion, and Lindsay had to change Makana's nasty diaper.  We found a quiet hallway off the beaten path, and took a family break.  Josh and Amanda were so lovely and patient with our pace.  


Josh taught us about the Italian painter who was hired to do the beautiful art under the dome of the Capital Building.  He even took us via special tram over to the senate building where he works.  We stood at a rostrum where people say important things and work on changing important laws.  We spoke into the microphone.  Who might have stood there before us?


And finally, it was back to Union Station for dinner.  



After dinner, it was lots of hugs and blowing kisses to our friends and this beautiful city.  Linds, Mams and Josh, we miss you already.  Thank you for a wonderful weekend and we hope to see you again soon!

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Little Lady Turns 3!

I'll just say from the get-go that I am horrible at birthdays.  I don't buy presents well, I don't remember birthdays, I don't often send a card in the rare occasion that I do, and sometimes I have to ask Marcos how old I am because I am not positive about my own age.

So wasn't Gigi lucky that this week the weather in North Carolina just happened to be PERFECT?  Her 3rd birthday was sandwiched in between a string of lovely days in the 70s and 80s, and so as friends sent out invitations to do this and that, we said yes to everything, in the name of giving her a royal birthday celebration.

On Monday night we had Family Home Evening with Tutu, and went out for ice cream at Maple View Farms, our local dairy farm general store.  Papai even brought a kite to fly in the field, and Gigi was so excited to try it that she hopped around on both feet because they forgot how to move one in front of the other.


On Tuesday we spent the morning at Jordan Lake with our friends, and in the evening went to a dinner party with the most incredible potluck spread, and watched planets and nebulas through a telescope to end the evening.






Wednesday was Gigi's actual birthday, and we went to Kidzu, a local "kid's museum", filled with all kinds of amazing play stations.  

The design table is very cool...


But nothing trumps the grocery store and restaurant with kitchen area.



For Gigi's special birthday dinner Tutu headed up some homemade pizza, which Marcos called the "best ever", and a killer salad.



And after a long family walk through the neighborhood it was time for strawberry shortcake, per Gigi's request.  Happy Birthday big girl!



On Thursday we had a calm morning, and invited our friends and neighbors the Olsens over for dinner.  I made dinner Brazilian style - feijoada (black beans and meat) with rice, vinaigrette, farofa, oranges, and for dessert I made lilikoi chiffon pie.  At one moment during dessert Gigi made the comment that she "didn't like the crust" and us adults were called upstairs for some reason or another.  We came down a few minutes later, to see the pie sitting on the table with deep gauges all over the top.  Apparently, Gigi had taken advantage of the fact that nobody was around, and she went for the parts of the pie she liked, while we were all distracted.  Since she is not typically a sneaky child and it was her birthday celebration, she got off pretty easy that night.

On Friday morning we explored the Chapel Hill public library for the first time since its recent renovation, and jumped in for a toddler story time that was very well done.  After a quick lunch we drove to Raleigh for Farm Animal Days at one of the NC State University farms.  Animals, heavy machinery, and free ice cream?  Yes please!

Gigi got to hold a baby chick...



...snuggle soft bunnies...



...climb into tractors...




...practice milking a pretend cow with rubber udders, and eat ice cream with Tutu.  It was such a great week to turn 3 years old!

  

Sunday, April 7, 2013

Snapshot

Just want to catch a snapshot of now.  I'm behind on travel photos from the Mad Month of March, but it is a good time to catch up on what's going on in the day to day instead of just the wild adventures.

MARCOS is finishing up his first full year at UNC as a transfer student, with only one more to go.  In general, being a UNC student has been a very happy experience for him, with some really great profs, good friends, and a lot of work.  He is hoping to secure an internship for the summer, but we're still waiting to hear back.  Financially it would be a great move, but the internship would likely pull him away from Chapel Hill for a few months, so I'm trying not to think too hard about the likelihood that he would be away during the week.  Next week we celebrate our sixth wedding anniversary, and since he's terrible at keeping secrets, he already told me that he reserved our spots in a "Romance in Italy" cooking class at Sur La Table, and he just made my favorite guys in the world list.  (He was already number one, but it can't hurt to secure the status).

This is my favorite recent photo of Marcos, from our Washington DC trip:


I am doing pretty darned well.  My volunteer coaching with Girls on the Run is wrapping up next week and our 5K is a week from today.  It's been a very positive experience, and I'm thinking about coaching again next fall because, honestly, being with those girls really makes me feel like I am in my groove - like I was born to teach and mentor young people.  In the parenting world I am sometimes in my groove, and sometimes very far away from my groove, but I can appreciate that raising these children is the most important work I will ever do.  Fortunately, we have a rich community around us.  These moms and these friends make difficult things communal, which lifts the load tremendously.

This might be my favorite recent photo of myself, from Easter Sunday:



GIOVANNA is turning three years old this week.  Sometimes I am amazed that she is already three, and sometimes I feel like we passed three a long time ago, and we are probably on to six, or maybe sixteen.  She has been in the "why?" stage for a few months now, and I have to coach myself through the mantra, "This is a good problem to have.  This is a good problem to have" to keep from losing my mind when her questioning backs me into a padded cell.  She is inquisitive, and asks me to define words that I can't define, and she asks about things like death, and the government.  Gigi also loves to sing, and make up foreign words.  It's common to hear her say things like, "Pakako!  That is how they say 'pear' in Chinese".  Oh wow, Gigi, you really know your languages.  If anyone does anything nice for me she prompts me, "Mommy, what do you say?" and waits for me to thank so and so before she continues her business.  She likes play doh and painting, and her tea sets, and preschool and playing with new toys at her friend's houses.  Lately she has also been into play fighting, armor, swords and weapons, and capoeira.

Here is a recent conversation, as we were preparing dinner.  I took a new approach to the "why?" dilemma.

M: Gigi, did you know that potatoes grow in the ground?
G: Why do they grow in the ground?
M: Because they are roots.
G: Why are they roots?
M: Because Heavenly Father made them that way.
G: Why did Heavenly Father make them that way?
M: Because Heavenly Father made them that way.
G: Why did Heavenly Father make them that way?
M: Because Heavenly Father made them that way.
G: Mommy, stop saying the same thing over and over and over!

Here is my favorite recent photo of Gigi.  When I took the photo, I noticed that she was a splash of bright pink against some drab layers of late winter foliage, and it felt like a larger metaphor for the role she plays in our lives.



ORION just turned 5 months, and I think it is finally safe to say that he is colic-free!  He grew out of it around 4 months, but we were so paranoid about jinxing it that we didn't want to announce too early that we were past that chapter.  And what a chapter it was!  He has become a sweet, happy baby, and he loves to nurse, roll around, and laugh at his sister.  He is very strong, and I have this sinking feeling that we may be in for a real handfull, based on nearly everyone's feedback after they hold him that he is "a really wiggly baby".

Here is my favorite recent photo of Orion.  I think he's so beautiful:


And that's that!  I'll try to get our Washington trip out next.

Thursday, April 4, 2013

March Madness

Disclaimer/promise: this post has nothing to do with basketball.  Nothing.  It's mainly just a note to say that I haven't forgotten about you.

March has been the craziest month we've lived in a long time.  Roadtrip to Asheville with new friends, roadtrip to Washington DC to visit old friends, a long weekend visit from Aussie friends, and of course Orion's baby blessing, small fry birthday parties galore, and EASTER!  The days we were home between trips were spent unpacking, doing laundry, and repacking.  I've been drooling over photos, but haven't had time to post and write.  That will be one of my goals for this weekend.

I wish I could post more often, but writing about life still doesn't trump living life.  And so I don't leave you hanging, here are some recent gems: Marcos and Gigi eating cantaloupe popsicles at our favorite Taqueria...


...and a thought from Gigi.

Gigi, very matter of factly, after completely not listening to me: "Sometimes I listen to my mommy and sometimes I don't.  But we're human beings and we make bad decisions sometimes".